Welcome back!  How was that first set of questions? 

What came up for you that surprised you?  Was it easy or hard to answer the questions?  Remember, there are no wrong answers to these questions, only your answers. 

Alright, now let’s move to Step 2 in the Success Clarifier. 

In this Step, we will take a look in the rearview mirror of your life and identify people, experiences, and memories who may have shaped your view of success. 

It can be helpful to create a character image of your current view of success to make it more tangible.  Some people have an image of a wealthy uncle, or successful coach, or a celebrity that personifies the current view of success.  Maybe it is a hybrid of several personalities or people.  Just let your imagination run with this for a bit.  Have fun with it. 

Allow your creativity to describe how this character acts and behaves.  What are they doing and not doing?  What do they say and not say?  How do they present in your mind? 

Next, the Success Clarifier asks you to look back on the successful life moments and chronicle what has worked for you to get you where you are today.  If you feel that you are not as successful as you want to be, don’t beat yourself up, rather, pay attention to things that have worked out for you, even if they are small wins. 

How did you feel when you achieved success?  What emotions came up? What thoughts were present when you experienced your views of success? 

Finally, the Success Clarifier asks you to evaluate how this current view is working for you.  Be honest.  If it is not working right now, then say it and write it.  If you have had some success but there were costs to the achievements, then note them here.  If things are going great, and maybe you want to jump to a new level of success, that is wonderful and we will build on that next. 

Rate your level of success on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being “wildly successful” and 1 being “a complete lack of success”.  Don’t worry if the numbers are low, the Success Clarifier will help you change that soon!  Write down the number under the third question of Step 2 of the Success Clarifier. 

Again, have fun, be playful, and above all, be honest with yourself.  Growth comes from an honest assessment, a clear acceptance, and a solid action plan. 

See you in Step 3!